Ending a relationship is never easy, even when you’ve truly had enough and you’re ready for freedom. But there are ways to make the deed go as smoothly as possible. If you only remember one thing, let it be this. Break up with others as you would like to be broken up with. Other than that, here are 6 of our best break-up methods.

1. Be honest
Whether he/she ends up believing you or not, being honest with whomever you’re breaking up with is the best way to go. Tell him/her why you need to move on and answer any questions he may throw at you as honestly as you can. Think about the times you were dumped with no reason. How did you feel? It probably frustrated you wondering why, when things appeared to be going so well, he decided to end it. Be fair and be honest with him.

2. Pick the right time
Some poor choices include at a party or any other social gathering, in the car or doing a mundane yet domestic task together such as grocery shopping. Chances are, he/she’ll be caught off guard no matter when you break the bad news, but if you do it in the frozen food section, he may have a much stronger reaction that if you do it at a café or in your neighborhood park. There is never going to be a perfect time to break up with someone, but try to have as much control over the time as you can, rather than blurting it out over brunch with friends.

3. Do it in a public place
This minimizes the chances for chaos. If you’re in a restaurant and there are people around, he/she will be less likely to fly off the handle and cause a scene. If you’re alone and he freaks out, you might be more likely to cave and call the whole thing off. Being in a public place may give you the confidence you need to follow through. Plus, when it’s over you can just walk away, rather than trying to get him/her to leave you place.

4. Do it in person
Do not be that person who ends a relationship electronically. Breaking up with someone via text, email or even over the phone is totally disrespectful. Even if you can’t wait to be rid of him/her, at least have the courage to look him/her in the eye as you dump him.

5. Make sure you are absolutely ready to do it
Not being totally sure of your feelings when you go to end a relationship can mess with your heart and his. If you’re not completely certain that it’s the right thing to do, you’ll confuse him/her and make him/her feel like he/she still has a chance, or worse, you’ll lose him/her when you still have feelings for him/her. Be totally ready to cut the ties or risk more heartache than necessary.

6. Take the high road
Chances are if he/she doesn’t see it coming, he/she won’t be happy with being dumped. He/she will curse at you, call you every name in the book, and make you feel like hauling off and punching him/her in the face. Restrain yourself. You’re leaving anyway, so just take a deep breath, nod politely and then walk away. You won’t gain anything by goading him on or giving him the satisfaction of knowing he/she upset you.

I've try this, but i can't.. hmm..

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

F.R.I.E.N.D.S satu sitcom yang terkenal suatu ketika dahulu, mungkin anda semua ada melihat rancangan kegemaran ramai sehingga musim terakhir. Tak perlu aku ceritakan dengan mendalam sitcom ini, mungkin ada yang lebih menarik dari sitcom ini. Bermacam kawan telah aku jumpa dimuka bumi ini, ada yang baik sebaik malaikat, ada yang jahat umpama lubang pu**mak mereka. Kenapa ada juga manusia seperti ini? Kenapa lahirnya manusia seperti ini? Apa yang menyebabkan mereka berfikir seperti "Asswipe" adakah mereka lahir kedunia untuk menghancurkan persahabatan yang mula dipercayai? Ya, manusia.. Tidak perlu kita jangka akal pemikiran mereka.
Kata-kata puitis? Kawan? "Jom arr.. Mcm nie ke kawan?" ayat seperti ini layak diletakkan didalam Kamus dewan. Selama ini aku hanya bersabar, kadang2 gurauan nya melampau umpama lubang Pu**mak nya. Mungkin kerna untuk menyatakan dirinya hebat, dipandang mulia? mampu mengawal semua termasuk aku? Oh.. Tidak kawan.. Kau lihat muka aku, aku lihat muka kau? begitu yang kau mahu? begitu yang kau suka. mungkin dalam masa yang sama kau senyum melihat diri kau memalatkan diri dengan aku? Come on f**k Up fag, kita berdiri sama sebagai manusia, kita hidup didunia yang sama. Kenapa perlu engkau bersikap seperti Lubang Pu**mak kau? Tepuk dada tanya selera.

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Stereofonik v1

Salam sejahtera semua yang mengikuti perkembangan semasa aku, hampir sebulan aku di Negara Brunei Darussalam. Banyak juga tempat yang aku lawati, ala setakat area Gadong? area BSB? cari saja aku. Paling bestnya di Kampung Air. Kali terakhir aku ke Kampung Air dalam umur 12 tahun kalau tak silapnya. Yala, makin hari makin tua, da saja benda yang nak diingat. Aku ke Kampung Air kerna ada penggambaran untuk Jabatan Penerangan Kerajaan Brunei yang bertajuk, cara-cara menaikkan bendera. Best la ke Kampung Air, bagi aku ia sungguh unik, mana taknya ku katakan unik. Lihat saja rumah yang banyak, terancang dan tersusun berada di atas air. Walaupun cuaca agak panas ditahap melampau, tapi aku gagahi juga, sekali sekala penyakitku menyerang tapi ku lawani jua. Banyak sebenarnya yang boleh ku lakarkan kehidupan aku disini, mungkin jika ada masa yang terlapang akan ku tuliskan lagi.